Can One's Background Affect their Lifestyle as Escort?
Over the years, I have come across various kinds of escorts. Although many people generalize us and stereotype us, this should not be the case. Some escorts fit in such stereotypes (for example, those who have been sexually abused or who come from broken homes). However, some have never endured such events. Most escorts or better said all escorts have suffered some kind of hardship (but who hasn’t anyway)? In my case, I suffered from economic disparity, and in result I faced depression that was founded in my background. I was brought up in a debauched society which convinced people their worth was based on shallow ideals. Years later, I realized how wrong these ideals were. Working as a female escort helped me feel good about myself. I was mainly desired for my sex appeal. This initially fuelled some shallow tendencies and gave me an ego.
Did my background affect my daily affairs?
My definite answer is yes. I’ve been asked this question many times. When people see how successful I am as an independent escort in Chennai, they think I’ve been this throughout. I was brought up in a neighborhood of middle to upper class society. Unfortunately, during my teenage, our family fragmented and became poor. Dealing with the sudden transition and living in relative poverty wasn’t easy for me. I always envied my peers who lived in many luxuries and had stable and normal lives. This is what pushed me to joining the female escort profession. Escorting gave me an opportunity to remain in high class. But I later realized defining oneself in the concept of class is terrible and makes you a slave of material wealth.
My growing up
I wasted much of my youth trying to gratify the wrong people. People who refused to accept you for who you were. I always assumed copying the wealthy was the ‘key’ thing. Now I understand how wrong I was.
My main aim in escorting
I joined escorting agency with only on single goal ‘becoming rich’. I knew the only way of getting my family out of poverty was by becoming an escort. I initially didn’t know what it entailed but my family’s social status became my driving force.
My take of my current job and social status
I was lucky enough to meet many clients who desired more than my sex appeal. They started appreciating who I was internally. They helped bring out the best in me. With time I’ve realized respect and love is more important than material wealth. Today I’m one of the most recognized Independent Marina Beach escort because I’m full of life. I meet clients from all over the world most of who are just longing for someone they can confide in.